Likes & Dis-likes

When my kid was born and when we were in the hospital few days after delivery ,i was not allowed to put on fan..My mother was totally against it as she believed that it will create problems for my kid..My mom always used to give this reason-She may suffocate as she was there in incubator for 1 week and she may not be used to the same..

I am the person who can't sleep without having fan switched on..so how did i manage..i used to act like i am sleeping and when my mother sleeps i used to getup and switch on the fan :)hihi Once my mother gets her sleep ,she wont get up inbetween..so i got my fan on and mine as well as my kid's sleep was peaceful..

My kid also got addicted to fan that much that in winter also she loves to sleep with fan on and without any blanket:)So unknowingly i formed a habit for her..Whether its good or bad ..i donno

I love watching Hindi movies and hates malayalam movies ..but my hubbie hates watching hindi movies and loves malayalam movies..so how can i make my kid's liking similar to mine..I used to make her sit with me whenever i am watching a movie..and sometimes i tell her the story also..After few movies ,She also started a liking towards hindi movies as she can see good scenary and good songs with mast dances..
So now our likes match ..we both have similar tastes now may be its watching MAD ,hindi movies or doing craft activities..

Most of the things i did was against the ideas put down by elders..I am not saying that you should go against elders opinion what i mean was always hear the opinions and also experiment with your ideas and also ideas you got from doctor or knowledgeable people from your generation..Generation gaps..

Once you get a suitable solution ,use it dont blindly follow anything..

Lesson to be noted :-
1)If your likes and your kids likes match ,then you will have less problems:)
2)All our likes/dislikes are created by us and it doesn't even take much time to change it...You just have to try it with your own mind..
3)Nothing is impossible..Everything is possible..
4) Very easy to change kid's opinion so dont ever forget to set the right way from childhood onwards as it will surely affect later..dont allow your kid to discard some items because he /she didnt like..let them do everything and finally once they grow up,let them decide the path they want to choose as they would have already tasted both the paths and the good/bad about each..